Constant connection via smartphone might be convenient, but many households are quietly considering whether a genuine sense of connection requires the friction of a landline call.
When I was a kid, a friend gave me a spiral-bound address and phone diary. I filled it with phone numbers of friends, church acquaintances, and Chinese restaurants. I even saved a toll-free 1-800 number to buy proactiv acne solutions at age eight (despite having zero dollars to my name).
It sounds inconvenient by today’s standards, but it forced a level of engagement that we’ve since lost. Calling someone required some social skill. You never knew if the other person would actually pick up, if someone else might be listening in, or if the conversation would drag on too long. With practice, I became proficient in actual, real-time conversation—swapping gossip, arguing, listening, and connecting with my friends on a deeper level.


